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Drinking a giant bottle of wine and eating a giant bag of gummy candies. !!!!

In this 10-minute video, Cindy Gallop argues that young men are getting a false sex education from pornography. The average age that kids first view porn is 11-years-old and, by the time that boys are men, they have learned to imitate the kind of sex that they see in pornography. She argues that this effect — the way that porn is shaping our actual sexual behavior — is the greatest impact of technology on human behavior. Period.

Not opposed to porn, Gallop nevertheless believes that we need a counterpoint to porn so that we get a more diverse set of messages about sexuality (not dissimilar to the argument I make about hook up culture).

In service of her message, Gallop also has a TED Talk, a short book, and a website, Make Love Not Porn, with some great content.

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November 20, 2011
This cat looks like my boyfriend

This cat looks like my boyfriend

October 22, 2011
I asked a young White woman why she was studying social anthropology. She replied that she was hoping to go to Zimbabwe, and felt that she could help women there by advising them how to organize. The Black women in the audience gasped in astonishment. Here was someone scarcely past girlhood, who had just started university and had never fought a war in her life. She was planning to go to Africa to teach female veterans of a liberation struggle how to organize! This is the kind of arrogant, if not absurd attitude we encounter repeatedly. It makes one think: Better the distant armchair anthropologists than these ‘sisters’.

African feminist Ifi Amadiume

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Making my cat, Heather, hate me 

Making my cat, Heather, hate me 

OK, SO AQUA JUST RELEASED A NEW ALBUM. 

October 6, 2011
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September 7, 2011
shannonwest:

does this really exist or

shannonwest:

does this really exist or

September 1, 2011
I can’t take pro-lifers seriously, but it’s even more so when it’s a man. I don’t make decisions about your testicles, don’t make decisions about my ovaries!

I can’t take pro-lifers seriously, but it’s even more so when it’s a man. I don’t make decisions about your testicles, don’t make decisions about my ovaries!

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